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		<title>By: Paul Zelizer</title>
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		<dc:creator>Paul Zelizer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 30 Jan 2010 23:39:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Andrew: Party at 6:31?  ;~)</description>
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		<title>By: Andrew</title>
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		<dc:creator>Andrew</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 30 Jan 2010 19:27:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Suit was binned at 06:30 this morning.

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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Suit was binned at 06:30 this morning.</p>
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		<title>By: Paul Zelizer</title>
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		<dc:creator>Paul Zelizer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 30 Jan 2010 13:03:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Andrew: Sometimes the Universe steps in and helps us move along on our dreams.  

Maha: Oh that Maha - LOL! (I only know one).  Yes, when we get VERY clear on what the total costs are, it tends to bring incredible clarity and conviction.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Andrew: Sometimes the Universe steps in and helps us move along on our dreams.  </p>
<p>Maha: Oh that Maha &#8211; LOL! (I only know one).  Yes, when we get VERY clear on what the total costs are, it tends to bring incredible clarity and conviction.</p>
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		<title>By: maha daoudi</title>
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		<dc:creator>maha daoudi</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 30 Jan 2010 08:09:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>hi paul it&#039;s maha from jakarta when you asked me that question in a session with you it put everything in perspective for me i looked at what i already paid by staying where i was and it was big and painfull and i knew right then that the price  was so disproportionate that the only way is to move forward not withstanding the the doubts and fears  it was not an option to stay motionless the price was to big 
thank you for you guidance
with love
maha</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>hi paul it&#8217;s maha from jakarta when you asked me that question in a session with you it put everything in perspective for me i looked at what i already paid by staying where i was and it was big and painfull and i knew right then that the price  was so disproportionate that the only way is to move forward not withstanding the the doubts and fears  it was not an option to stay motionless the price was to big<br />
thank you for you guidance<br />
with love<br />
maha</p>
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		<title>By: Five Strategies to Make Coaching Affordable &#124; paulzelizer.com</title>
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		<dc:creator>Five Strategies to Make Coaching Affordable &#124; paulzelizer.com</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 28 Jan 2010 01:38:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Andrew</title>
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		<dc:creator>Andrew</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Jan 2010 17:51:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Well, that was a quick &quot;forced&quot; change for me. 

Office suit gets binned next week, Friday. Then once I can/find what I&#039;m want, I&#039;m off to Japan for 3 months, sooner rather than later. 

Need to read your impatience post again!

Happy Travels

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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well, that was a quick &#8220;forced&#8221; change for me. </p>
<p>Office suit gets binned next week, Friday. Then once I can/find what I&#8217;m want, I&#8217;m off to Japan for 3 months, sooner rather than later. </p>
<p>Need to read your impatience post again!</p>
<p>Happy Travels</p>
<p>A</p>
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		<title>By: Paul Zelizer</title>
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		<dc:creator>Paul Zelizer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Jan 2010 16:38:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Andrew and Brenda: I hear you loud and clear re: the force to change thing.  As our world continues to change, more and more people will be experiencing old realities crumbling.  The good news is those of us who are changing our relationship with change are in for a pretty sweet ride.  Thanks for sharing your thoughts!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Andrew and Brenda: I hear you loud and clear re: the force to change thing.  As our world continues to change, more and more people will be experiencing old realities crumbling.  The good news is those of us who are changing our relationship with change are in for a pretty sweet ride.  Thanks for sharing your thoughts!</p>
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		<title>By: Brenda</title>
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		<dc:creator>Brenda</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Jan 2010 14:06:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>All the tough spots in my life have forced me to a new level of consciousness . . . who would have thought at the time?  Now it is my job to share the wealth . . . Thank you Paul for another inspiring and honest post!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>All the tough spots in my life have forced me to a new level of consciousness . . . who would have thought at the time?  Now it is my job to share the wealth . . . Thank you Paul for another inspiring and honest post!</p>
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		<title>By: Andrew</title>
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		<dc:creator>Andrew</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Jan 2010 14:03:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Paul, I here you!

The cost of staying the same is for most people a feeling of safety, security and perhaps to a lesser extent comfort. 

The huge, no massive irony or paradox being: most people I come across don&#039;t have a huge amount of feeling safe or secure in their current position of comfort.  The words heard and follow come to mind.

It is only when they are FORCED to make a change i.e lose everything and have no other place to go, do they then begin to think, actually what I thought of as safe and secure was the most unsafe and insecure place I could have been.

Happy Travels

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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Paul, I here you!</p>
<p>The cost of staying the same is for most people a feeling of safety, security and perhaps to a lesser extent comfort. </p>
<p>The huge, no massive irony or paradox being: most people I come across don&#8217;t have a huge amount of feeling safe or secure in their current position of comfort.  The words heard and follow come to mind.</p>
<p>It is only when they are FORCED to make a change i.e lose everything and have no other place to go, do they then begin to think, actually what I thought of as safe and secure was the most unsafe and insecure place I could have been.</p>
<p>Happy Travels</p>
<p>A</p>
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		<title>By: Paul Zelizer</title>
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		<dc:creator>Paul Zelizer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 20 Jan 2010 20:05:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey Karen,

I remember Elizabeth from when I was at Omega in 1991.  She&#039;s a very wise woman.  You did it again - picked just just the right qoute!  You&#039;re AWESOME Karen.  

Much love,
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey Karen,</p>
<p>I remember Elizabeth from when I was at Omega in 1991.  She&#8217;s a very wise woman.  You did it again &#8211; picked just just the right qoute!  You&#8217;re AWESOME Karen.  </p>
<p>Much love,<br />
Paul</p>
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