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		<title>How to Create Enough Time</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Dec 2010 23:43:45 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Paul Zelizer</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Last night I returned home from a 10 day retreat.  Today, I noticed I was working in a more relaxed and aligned way than I had in some time.  For instance, I took 20 minutes to compose a heartfelt email answering a potential new client&#8217;s questions.  That&#8217;s longer than usual for me.  As I sent...]]></description>
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<p>Last night I returned home from a 10 day retreat.  Today, I noticed I was working in a more relaxed and aligned way than I had in some time.  For instance, I took 20 minutes to compose a heartfelt email answering a potential new client&#8217;s questions.  That&#8217;s longer than usual for me.  As I sent it off, I felt good about taking this step to create meaningful connection.</p>
<p>After 10 days away from my usual fast paced work life, I was able to see that I sometimes miss important opportunities because of feeling time scarcity.</p>
<p><strong>Feeling rushed is the new normal</strong></p>
<p>In our constantly connected world &#8211; with email, texting, social media and more &#8211; it&#8217;s easy to get into a chronic state of feeling like there&#8217;s not enough time.  Most of my clients come to me with this complaint.  <em>Honestly, before my retreat, I was slipping back into this mindset myself.</em></p>
<p>For generations, spiritual teachers have taught that we <span style="text-decoration: underline;">can</span> feel spacious around time.  And, one of the keys to shifting into this is through cultivating the attitude of patience.</p>
<p><strong>But there&#8217;s just not enough time ..</strong></p>
<p class="notice">Definition of Patience &#8211; quiet, steady perseverance; even-tempered care.<br />
Source: Dictionary.com</p>
<p>Though many people want to feel spacious around time, it can feel tricky in our modern world.  <em>I mean who has time for even-tempered care?</em> I often hear people say things like:</p>
<ol>
<li>I have WAY too much to do</li>
<li>I&#8217;m afraid I won&#8217;t get it all done</li>
<li>Everyone around me is impatient</li>
<li>I have too many responsibilities</li>
<li>It won&#8217;t do any good</li>
</ol>
<p>As long as you are going through life feeling impatient and like time is scarce, the Law of Attraction will keep bringing more opportunities to feel rushed and impatient.  <em>Remember, the shift that you are longing for starts on the inside.</em></p>
<p>Here are some EFT setup phrases you can use to start creating more patience and time abundance in your life:</p>
<ul>
<li><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: georgia,palatino;"><em>Even though this rushed feeling has become normal for me, I&#8217;m willing to acknowledge the impact it&#8217;s having on my life.</em><em> </em></span></span></li>
<li><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: georgia,palatino;"><em>Even though I don&#8217;t know how to stop feeling so rushed and impatient, I choose to accept the situation I&#8217;m in anyway.</em></span></span></li>
<li><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: georgia,palatino;"><em>Even though I&#8217;m afraid I&#8217;m too busy to make any real change, I&#8217;m willing to be a bit kinder with myself.</em></span></span></li>
</ul>
<p><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: georgia,palatino;">Once you start to open more to the positive impact that patience can have on your success, you can use your EFT for abundance skills to help you create more of this feeling.  Use phrases like:</span></span></p>
<ul>
<li><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: georgia,palatino;"><em>Even though in the past I used to think it was impossible to have more patience in my busy life,  I&#8217;m choosing to be more open to that possibility now.</em></span></span></li>
<li><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: georgia,palatino;"><em>Even though I used to think that time spaciousness was very difficult for me, I give myself<br />
permission to have more of   it now.</em></span></span></li>
<li><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: georgia,palatino;"><em>Even though I got used to these feelings of rushed and impatient, I choosing to experiment with this feeling of more abundance. </em></span></span></li>
</ul>
<p>In an economic climate where most people are vibrating impatience and the energy of being rushed, your vibration of <span id="hotword"><span id="hotword" style="cursor: default; background-color: transparent;">even-tempered</span> <span id="hotword" style="cursor: default;">care will stand out in almost any field.  I invite you to experiment with this feeling of time abundance and to notice the effect it has on your financial abundance as well. </span></span></p>
<p><span id="hotword"><span id="hotword" style="cursor: default;">I would love to hear your experience with this.  Please feel free to share your thoughts or questions in the form of a comment below.<br />
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		<title>3 Ways to Turbocharge Your Success with Appreciation</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Nov 2010 17:27:45 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Paul Zelizer</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Conscious Business]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[attracting abundance]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[There is a saying in the personal development world &#8211; the course (or retreat) starts when you commit to go on it.  As some of you who are connected with me on social media know, on Monday I&#8217;m going to be starting a 10-day retreat. Already this week, I&#8217;ve been reflecting more than usual.  I&#8217;ve...]]></description>
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<p>There is a saying in the personal development world &#8211; the course (or retreat) starts when you commit to go on it.  As some of you who are connected with me on social media know, on Monday I&#8217;m going to be starting a 10-day retreat.</p>
<p>Already this week, I&#8217;ve been reflecting more than usual.  I&#8217;ve been especially thinking about 2 questions.  They are:</p>
<ol>
<li> What the heck happened to create this wonderful year of growth in my business?</li>
<li>How can I help others who want more success to learn from this?</li>
</ol>
<p><strong>Appreciation is like Rocket Fuel</strong></p>
<p>We are in the midst of a global recession.  Many coaches are struggling.  Some very good ones I know gave up this year. Yet, my business grew to 3 thriving Mastermind groups and a roster of awesome, ongoing individual clients.  And there&#8217;s even more good stuff on the way for 2011.</p>
<p>A traditional business coach would look at what happened and say things like &#8220;You did a major upgrade on your website&#8221; and &#8220;You improved your copywriting skills.&#8221;  While I do think these helped, I don&#8217;t think that&#8217;s the major reason.  For instance, I consulted with one woman this year who spent over $12,000 on a very fancy website &#8211; much slicker than mine &#8211; that never brought her a client.</p>
<p class="notice">The real secret to my increased success is that I made a decision to vibrate appreciation much more frequently.</p>
<p><strong>Get Specific About Appreciation</strong></p>
<p>I&#8217;m not the first Law of Attraction knowledgeable coach to talk about appreciation as a business builder.  But one of the things I&#8217;ve done differently is follow the EFT guideline of &#8220;Get Specific&#8221; when it comes to incorporating appreciation into my business.   Here are <strong>3 Specific Ways to Turbocharge Your Success with Appreciation:</strong></p>
<p><strong>1) Look for opportunities to appreciate your individual clients. </strong>You don&#8217;t have to be forceful or artificial about this.  Just have your radar tuned for when a client makes a shift &#8211; even a small one.  Then say something authentic. Over time, this positive energy will build momentum for the changes they came to you to make.</p>
<p><strong>2) Appreciate whole groups for their strengths. </strong>In one of my Mastermind groups, we recently had a situation where someone entered and left quickly because it wasn&#8217;t a good fit.  After the dust settled, I appreciate how the group members handled this.  After a year together, this group culture is an awesome healing environment.  A few words of appreciation helped the members to recenter and connect deeper than ever.</p>
<p><strong>3) Don&#8217;t just appreciate your paying clients or customers. </strong>Many people only think to appreciate their paying clients/customers.  <em>One of the important things I have done differently in 2010 is start appreciating people who are NOT paying clients as well as those who are.</em> I do this through interactions on <a href="http://www.facebook.com/#!/paul.zelizer">Facebook</a> and <a href="http://twitter.com/#!/PaulZelizer">Twitter</a>, appreciating people who comment on my blog, and incorporating the vibration of appreciation in to my newsletter.  People have been increasingly noticing and commenting on this.</p>
<p><strong>I appreciate you!</strong></p>
<p>As we approach Thanksgiving here in the US, I want to say how grateful I am to know you.  If we&#8217;ve had the opportunity to connect, I look forward to deepening that connection in 2011.  And, if we haven&#8217;t yet connected personally, I invite you to comment on this post or to connect on <a href="http://www.facebook.com/#%21/paul.zelizer">Facebook</a>.</p>
<p>With much appreciation!</p>
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		<title>The Conscious Creator&#8217;s Guide to Making Money in a Recession</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Nov 2010 22:18:41 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Paul Zelizer</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Recently I received an email from a woman &#8211; let&#8217;s call her Jane &#8211; who&#8217;s in a tough situation.  At almost 40 years old, she lost her job, moved in with her mom and signed up for government aid.  She asked me for some suggestions about how to use energy psychology tools like EFT for...]]></description>
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<p>Recently I received an email from a woman &#8211; let&#8217;s call her Jane &#8211; who&#8217;s in a tough situation.  At almost 40 years old, she lost her job, moved in with her mom and signed up for government aid.  She asked me for some suggestions about how to use energy psychology tools like EFT for Abundance and the Law of Attraction to turn her situation around.</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s how Jane describes things:</p>
<blockquote><p>I am not currently working and I have no clarity in my career direction. I am in debt and have limiting money beliefs. I  want to come off the government aid and my mother’s co-dependent  financial support. I want a new lease on life.&#8221;</p></blockquote>
<p><strong>Step 1: Don&#8217;t take this personally</strong></p>
<p>For anyone who&#8217;s unemployed, underemployed or working in a job they hate, my first suggestion is to take the advice of Don Miguel Ruiz and &#8220;Don&#8217;t take anything personally&#8221;.  This comes from Don Miguel&#8217;s extremely popular book, <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Four-Agreements-Practical-Personal-Freedom/dp/1878424505/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1288721968&amp;sr=8-1">The Four Agreements.</a></p>
<p>The global economy is in the midst of big changes.  Millions of people are feeling lost or squeezed in this process.  Making money in a recession is MUCH harder when you keep beating yourself up for being where you are.</p>
<p>Here are some EFT setup phrases:</p>
<ul>
<li><em>Even though I&#8217;ve been hard on myself for this difficult situation, I&#8217;m willing to acknowledge these feelings and the impact they&#8217;ve been having.</em></li>
<li><em>Even though I don&#8217;t like this situation I&#8217;m in, I accept that I have these feelings anyway.</em></li>
<li><em>Even though I wish I could have avoided this whole mess, I&#8217;m open to the possibility I could start being kinder to myself anyway.</em></li>
</ul>
<p><strong>Step 2: Start your energy management retreat</strong></p>
<p>Now that you&#8217;ve stopped beating up on yourself, it&#8217;s time for something new.  From now on, you are no longer unemployed or working in a job you hate<em>.  From this moment forward, you are on an energy management retreat.</em></p>
<p>What the heck is an energy management retreat?  It means a time in your life when you prioritize:</p>
<ol>
<li>Noticing where your energy currently is and</li>
<li>Learning to effectively shift your energy in a more positive direction.</li>
</ol>
<p>To start, print out <a href="http://paulzelizer.com/the-emotional-scale/">The Emotional Scale</a> from Abraham-Hick&#8217;s book, <span style="text-decoration: underline;">Ask and It Is Given</span>.  Post it on the fridge or your bathroom mirror and use it <em>at least</em> 3 times per day.  After just a few days, you will start to notice energy patterns.</p>
<p><strong>Step 3: Clear the limiting beliefs</strong></p>
<p>With kind attention, you will start to see that negative feelings are connected to certain thoughts.  For instance, Jane wrote to me about sexual events in her past that she feels very bad about.  Though they happened years ago, they still have a profound effect.</p>
<p>As you notice yourself feeling emotions like fear, unworthiness, and anger, explore what your thoughts are.  Clear these limiting thoughts and you turbocharge your ability to find creative money making opportunities &#8211; no matter what the economy is doing.</p>
<p>For instance, from her email it sounds like Jane is feeling unworthy because of the difficult sexual events.  She could use EFT setup statements like:</p>
<ul>
<li><em>Even though I haven&#8217;t believed I was worthy of making a good living because of these sexual events, I&#8217;m choosing to acknowledge these feelings and the effect they have been having on my career.</em></li>
<li><em>Even though my creativity about my career is stuck because of all this shame I feel, I&#8217;m open to being kinder to myself anyway.</em></li>
<li><em>Even though I wish I didn&#8217;t have all these limiting beliefs about my abilities, I&#8217;m choosing to allow myself to start healing anyway.</em></li>
</ul>
<p><strong>Step 4: Create conscious support<br />
</strong></p>
<p>Many of you know that my financial world collapsed a number of years ago.  I came to realize that it was time for big changes.  And though they loved me very much, my existing support networks weren&#8217;t very helpful.  They had a hard time seeing me in a radically different life.</p>
<p>I got some great advice at that time &#8211; <em>create conscious support.</em> I followed that advice and I don&#8217;t think I&#8217;d have the thriving business I have today (for example, while I was typing this I received an email titled &#8220;Referral&#8221;) if I hadn&#8217;t.</p>
<p>Here are some possibilities:</p>
<ol>
<li><strong>Get active on this blog.</strong> The Success for Spiritual People community is getting stronger each month.  It doesn&#8217;t cost anything to read the posts and join the conversation via comments.  Just go to the bottom of this post and share your thoughts to start.</li>
<li><strong>Consider buying a copy of Elizabeth Hyland&#8217;s book <a href="http://elizabethhyland.net">Surviving the Unemployment Rollercoaster</a>.</strong> It&#8217;s a great resource for learning to use Law of Attraction to find a great job.  She also has a wonderful newsletter.</li>
<li><strong>Connect with Ingrid Dinter. </strong>She&#8217;s a veteran EFT Practitioner who&#8217;s now working on issues of career transition. <a href="http://www.eftcoach.net/">Check out her site</a> for great videos on using EFT in this way.</li>
</ol>
<p>If you&#8217;re ready to reinvent making money in a recession, it&#8217;s going to take some work.  The steps I&#8217;ve outlined above are designed to serve as a map and to avoid unnecessary confusion or pain.  I invite you to let us know what your experience is or ask any questions in the form of a comment below.</p>
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		<title>Why Am I Feeling So Grateful?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 27 Sep 2010 23:07:21 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Paul Zelizer</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A little less than 2 years ago, I left my comfortable social worker&#8217;s office for the last time. With quite a bit of uncertainty and not much money in the bank, I took the plunge into coaching full-time. What a ride it&#8217;s been! I would be lying if I said there were no middle of...]]></description>
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<p>A little less than 2 years ago, I left my comfortable social worker&#8217;s office for the last time.  With quite a bit of uncertainty and not much money in the bank, I took the plunge into coaching full-time.</p>
<p><strong>What a ride it&#8217;s been!</strong></p>
<p>I would be lying if I said there were no middle of the night money sweats and even a few thoughts of &#8220;maybe I should just go back to agency work&#8221;.  <em>But thanks to EFT, a growing understanding of the Law of Attraction and great coaching, I got the tools I needed to work my way through those anxious moments.</em></p>
<p>Back then, it wasn&#8217;t easy to find the kind of support I was longing for.  I met some great EFT and mindset coaches who helped me understand my mental blocks.  However, I was often unsure after our sessions about my next steps <span style="text-decoration: underline;">in the world</span>.  And, though I had some very knowledgeable business and marketing coaches, they thought the word vibration only applied to cars when the tires aren&#8217;t aligned.  They didn&#8217;t &#8220;get&#8221; my spiritual approach.</p>
<p><strong>Welcome to the new Success for Spiritual People</strong></p>
<p>And so, one contact at a time, I started meeting people who shared my passion for an inner and outer for approach to success.  Thanks to this network, my practice grew.</p>
<p><strong>And so it brings me great joy to share with you the new Success for Spiritual People website. </strong> As I&#8217;ve been out there connecting and listening, <em>I&#8217;ve come to realize that there are of thousands and thousands of people who care deeply about living a life of meaning, joy and success. </em></p>
<p class="notice">It is my intention for this new site to create a vibrant community of people who are ready for a life of both deep meaning and prosperity.</p>
<div id="attachment_2874" class="wp-caption alignright" style="width: 197px"><a href="http://paulzelizer.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/09/thank-you.JPG"><img class="size-full wp-image-2874 " title="thank you" src="http://paulzelizer.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/09/thank-you.JPG" alt="Photo credit: Ben Chaney" width="187" height="125" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Photo credit: Ben Chaney</p></div>
<p>If this vision speaks to you, I invite you to share in a comment below. Say hi.  Ask about how to use EFT to clear limiting money beliefs or what program is best for sending out an email newsletter.  Tell us your dog&#8217;s name.  Say whatever feels natural in front of a group of other of spiritual people who care about your success.</p>
<p>And, once more, I want to express my deepest gratitude.  I look forward to finding ways to help you increase the feelings of joy and purpose in your work.</p>
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		<title>Goodbye to the 3am Money Worries</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Jul 2010 20:35:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Paul Zelizer</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[It&#8217;s 3am and you can&#8217;t sleep.  You&#8217;re thinking about how you&#8217;re gonna shuffle the money around to keep gas in the car, food in the fridge and a roof over your head. It&#8217;s not the first time you&#8217;ve had a night like this.  And you&#8217;re tired.  Of living.  Like this. First let me say that I&#8217;ve...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It&#8217;s 3am and you can&#8217;t sleep.  You&#8217;re thinking about how you&#8217;re gonna shuffle the money around to keep gas in the car, food in the fridge and a roof over your head.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s not the first time you&#8217;ve had a night like this.  And you&#8217;re tired.  Of living.  Like this.</p>
<p><a href="http://paulzelizer.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/Dark_Stars.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-2654" title="Dark_Stars" src="http://paulzelizer.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/Dark_Stars-300x239.jpg" alt="Dark_Stars" width="251" height="200" /></a></p>
<p>First let me say that I&#8217;ve had more money induced worries than your average person.  While I am VERY grateful for my steady business now, you could say that I spent several years in training to write this post.  That said, here&#8217;s <strong>How to Say Goodbye to the 3am Money Worries</strong>:</p>
<p><strong>1) Understand what the worry wants.</strong> In our modern culture, money is equated with both safety and comfort.  So, when you&#8217;re not easily paying your bills, the emotions can be intense.</p>
<p>Because it&#8217;s uncomfortable to feel emotions like worry and fear, the tendency is to try and push these feelings away.  This doesn&#8217;t work.  In fact, it&#8217;s setting yourself up for the next 3am worry attack.</p>
<p>Instead of seeing it as something bad or wrong, acknowledge that the worry has a purpose. It&#8217;s your nervous system saying, &#8220;Something needs to change.&#8221;  When you accept this need for change, your nervous system can start to relax.</p>
<p><strong>2) Work on your Tailenders. </strong> I invite you to complete this sentance: &#8220;I want to change my money situation, but ___.&#8221;</p>
<p>In EFT lingo, everything after the word but is  called your tailender.   Your tailenders keep you stuck in the same belief systems and behaviors that have created your current money situation.</p>
<p><strong>3) Polish your entreprenurial skills.</strong> Whether you own your own business or work for someone else, your income will grow faster when you recognize that there are always opportunities around you.  Entrepreneurs are people who say YES to the most exciting and aligned opportunities.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s time to say goodbye to spending your nights worrying.  Instead, refocus your energy on learning what you need to create high paying work that you enjoy.  I did it.  My clients are doing it.  You can do it too!</p>
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		<title>Success Lessons From a Park Bench</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Jan 2010 22:46:12 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Paul Zelizer</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Lately, I&#8217;ve been seeing the issue of impatience pop up in a number of sessions.  As in, &#8220;Why is it taking SO LONG for things to change?!?&#8220;  When a theme repeats like this, I know it&#8217;s time to write about it.  If you&#8217;ve ever felt like your success plan was taking too darn long, I...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Lately, I&#8217;ve been seeing the issue of impatience pop up in a number of sessions.  As in, &#8220;<em>Why is it taking <strong>SO LONG</strong> for things to change?!?</em>&#8220;  When a theme repeats like this, I know it&#8217;s time to write about it.  If you&#8217;ve ever felt like your success plan was <span style="text-decoration: underline;">taking too darn long</span>, I encourage you to keep reading.</p>
<p><strong>How Listening to A Park Bench Made One Man Wealthy </strong></p>
<p>One of my favorite stories about the energy dynamics of change comes from the spiritual teacher Eckhart Tolle.  Today, many people know him as Oprah&#8217;s friend and best selling author.  Many people don&#8217;t know that before he became famous, Eckhart Tolle was stuck and confused.  He didn&#8217;t have a stable home or job.</p>
<p><a href="http://paulzelizer.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/park-bench1.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-1484" title="park bench" src="http://paulzelizer.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/park-bench1-150x113.jpg" alt="park bench" width="180" height="135" /></a>Eckhart knew he wanted a different life, but he didn&#8217;t know how.  One day sitting on a park bench, Eckhart had a realization that changed his life and brought incredible success.  <em>He realized that he was spending a great deal of energy fighting the circumstances of his life.</em> Though he didn&#8217;t want to be confused and jobless, <span style="text-decoration: underline;">he was</span>.</p>
<p>Eckhart understood that the only way things were going to really change is if he could &#8220;surrender&#8221; and &#8220;walk through the doorway of NOW&#8221;.  That insight lead to a feeling of profound well-being so strong that people started to approach him for guidance.  His career as a spiritual teacher was born.</p>
<p><strong>What&#8217;s Your Park Bench?</strong></p>
<p>You don&#8217;t have to have to be almost homeless to have this stuck energy operating in your life.  For me, it was being in position of going through a divorce and being &#8220;just over broke&#8221; doing work I didn&#8217;t like.</p>
<p>In fact, there is a basic energy equation when we are feeling frustrated.  It is:</p>
<blockquote><p><em><strong>I&#8217;m frustrated that I&#8217;m <span style="text-decoration: underline;">here</span> (in a place I don&#8217;t want to be) when I want to be <span style="text-decoration: underline;">there</span> (in a place I want to be more).</strong></em></p></blockquote>
<p>Wanting change and success is a good thing.  At the same time, it&#8217;s difficult for success to flow smoothly with this kind of tension in your system.</p>
<p><strong>Easing Into Success with EFT</strong></p>
<p>Energy intelligent people will recognize that being in this state of tension and having your focus on what&#8217;s not working is going to attract more tension into your life.  Let&#8217;s take a look at how to shift into a place of being more ready for change with EFT (if you want to learn EFT basics, <strong><a href="http://paulzelizer.com/eft/eft-tapping-points/">click here</a></strong>).</p>
<p><strong>Frustration Sequence &#8211; The Problem</strong></p>
<p>Karate Chop: Even though it feels like things are taking too long to change and I&#8217;m feeling impatient, I&#8217;m willing to be a little kinder and gentler with myself anyway.</p>
<p>Eyebrow: I don&#8217;t know why things in my life aren&#8217;t changing faster.<br />
Side of eye: I&#8217;m feeling impatient with the pace of change in my life.<br />
Under the eye: I&#8217;ve been working on change for some time now.<br />
Under the nose: Why aren&#8217;t I further along?<br />
Chin: It&#8217;s taking SO long.<br />
Collarbone: I feel lots of pressure to change things NOW.<br />
Under the arm: I don&#8217;t like how long this is taking.</p>
<p>Take a deep breath and give a moment for this tapping sequence to settle.</p>
<p><strong>Frustration Sequence &#8211; The Solution</strong></p>
<p>Karate Chop: Even though in the past it feels like things weren&#8217;t changing fast enough, I&#8217;m choosing to find a more relaxed relationship with change now.</p>
<p>Eyebrow: In the past, I was focusing on what wasn&#8217;t going well in terms of change.<br />
Side of the eye: No wonder I was feeling so frustrated.<br />
Under the eye: What would happen if I could find a way to release that pressure?<br />
Under the nose: What if I COULD relax about the pace of change in my life?<br />
Chin: I wonder if I could actually <span style="text-decoration: underline;">change faster</span> if I didn&#8217;t feel so much pressure?<br />
Collarbone: I give myself permission to experiment with releasing this pressure.<br />
Under the arm: I&#8217;m excited to work towards my success goals in more relaxed way.</p>
<p>Take a deep breath and give a moment for this tapping sequence to settle.</p>
<p><strong>Summing it up</strong></p>
<p>One of the great paradoxes about life changes is that they tend to happen the fastest when we are in a state that athletes call &#8220;The Zone&#8221;.  Pushing gets in the way of this.  Instead, use your favorite clearing tool to release the frustration and struggle patterns.</p>
<p>Next, allow yourself to experiment.   What would it be like to allow yourself to work from the Zone more?  How are you already doing this?  I&#8217;d love to hear your thoughts in the form of a comment below.</p>
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		<title>What the Heck is a Mastermind Buddy?</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 03 Dec 2009 22:19:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Paul Zelizer</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Lately, I&#8217;ve been hearing myself say to clients repeatedly, &#8220;you need a prosperity buddy.&#8221;  When something keeps showing up like this, I know it&#8217;s time for a blog post.  In this post, I want to share with you what a Prosperity or Mastermind Buddy is, where to find one and what to do once you...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Lately, I&#8217;ve been hearing myself say to clients repeatedly, &#8220;you need a prosperity buddy.&#8221;  When something keeps showing up like this, I know it&#8217;s time for a blog post.  In this post, I want to share with you what a <strong>Prosperity or Mastermind Buddy</strong> is, where to find one and what to do once you have one.</p>
<div id="attachment_1279" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 178px"><a href="http://paulzelizer.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/12/buddies-31.jpg"><img class="size-full wp-image-1279" title="buddies 3" src="http://paulzelizer.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/12/buddies-31.jpg" alt="It's more fun with a buddy!" width="168" height="128" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">It&#39;s more fun with a buddy!</p></div>
<p><strong>What the heck is a Mastermind buddy?</strong></p>
<p>The biggest lesson most success seekers need to learn is how to <span style="text-decoration: underline;">consistently</span> nurture their deepest desires.  Honestly, most of us aren&#8217;t very good at doing this.  This is why most abundance programs fail &#8211; they don&#8217;t teach us how to do the kind of ongoing tending that real success needs.</p>
<p>A prosperity or mastermind buddy is a <span style="text-decoration: underline;">deliberately chosen</span> friend who we agree to get together with regularly and nurture each other&#8217;s success intentions.</p>
<p>Buddies set aside time, usually either weekly or bi-monthly, to trade experiences of sharing honestly about what their dreams are and work on releasing the limiting beliefs and feelings that are getting in the way of manifesting those dreams. <strong> </strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">My favorite way of releasing the gunk that&#8217;s blocking success is with EFT.</span></p>
<p><strong>Where the heck do I find a buddy?</strong></p>
<p>&#8220;OK, sounds good Paul,&#8221; you may say, &#8220;but where do I FIND a prosperity buddy?&#8221;  Notice that in the above section, I underlined the idea that <strong>buddies are deliberately created.</strong> I&#8217;m going to share several ideas of where you can find a prosperity buddy below.  At the same time, keep in mind that for the process to work well, you need to have a buddy that you feel comfortable sharing emotional and financial information with.  Selecting a prosperity buddy is a great time to use your spiritual awareness and intuitive skills.</p>
<p>That said, here are 5 places to find a prosperity buddy:</p>
<p><strong>1) Among people you already know and trust.</strong> Some of you already know people who would make great prosperity buddies.  Perhaps you have a friend, colleague or acquaintance you trust and believe would be open to this kind of ongoing supportive relationship.  <span style="text-decoration: underline;">Avoid trying to be a buddy with someone you are in a romantic relationship with.</span><br />
<strong>2) The readers of this blog. </strong>People who read and comment on this blog tend to be spiritual and fun success seekers who are familiar with EFT and the Law of Attraction.  They also tend to know other people who fit this description.   Feel free to leave a comment that you&#8217;re looking for a buddy.<br />
<strong>3) The forums at the main EFT website </strong>(<strong><a href="http://emofree.com/">www.emofree.com</a></strong>).  A number of my clients have found prosperity tapping buddies by connecting with people in these forums.  Specifically, there is a forum called &#8220;Abundance&#8221; which is focused on using EFT for money and success issues.<br />
<strong>4) TappingBuddies.com</strong> While the activity on this site is less than what I wish it were, this site is focused on helping people find tapping buddies.<br />
<strong>5) Social Network sites. </strong>Facebook, Twitter, Linked In and other such sites ROCK!  I met my <span style="text-decoration: underline;">awesome</span> Mastermind buddy, <strong><a href="http://www.healthyinmind.com/">Sejual Shah</a></strong>, this way.  Through the magic of these sites, you have the opportunity to get to know someone in a safe and easy manner.  Once you meet someone you like the energy of, invite them to have a conversation to get to know them better.  If you get a good sense of the person, then bring up the idea of becoming prosperity buddies.</p>
<p><strong>I&#8217;ve got a buddy.  What the heck do we do now?</strong></p>
<p>Here&#8217;s the 6 steps to creating a good prosperity buddy relationship:</p>
<p><strong>1) Start with appreciation.</strong> Appreciate your buddy and yourself for doing this.  Appreciation goes a long way towards creating the kind of safe and fun environment that will serve you well over time.<br />
<strong>2) Leave judgment at the door. </strong>Your role is not to judge or fix your buddy.  Instead, help your buddy clear the blocks and track the progress that she is making over time.  Deep listening is also extremely valuable.<br />
<strong>3) Agree to a regular meeting schedule.</strong> Remember the whole point of this relationship is to create an environment of consistent nurturing.  Most buddies meet either every week or bi-monthly.<br />
<strong>4) Check in &#8211; from the heart.</strong> At the start of each meeting, take turns doing a short (3-4 minutes) check in.  Be authentic about what you are noticing in relationship to your deepest success dreams.  Pay particular attention to the emotions &#8211; that&#8217;s the key to where the energy is for you.<br />
<strong>5) Use energy tools to remove the blocks. </strong>Once you&#8217;ve both checked in, decide whose turn it will be that meeting to do clearing work.   It&#8217;s best to devote a meeting to one person&#8217;s issues (alternating works great).  Use EFT or another energy tool to clear the blocks that are getting in the way of your success dreams.  Feel free to<strong> <a href="http://paulzelizer.com/contact/">contact me</a></strong> if you need help learning to do this.<br />
<strong>6) With the blocks out of the way, explore what action step you are inspired to do.</strong> Once the blocks are out of the way, aligned actions steps will naturally appear.  No pushing or heavy handed advice giving needed.</p>
<p>I hope this post inspires you create a mastermind buddy relationship in your life.  In comparing notes with the dozens of prosperity and success coaches I know, our collective experience is that this is one of the most important predictors of people who actually MANIFEST their success dreams.</p>
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		<title>The World&#8217;s 1st Highly Irreverent EFT Manual</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 30 Oct 2009 10:52:51 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Paul Zelizer</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I have a confession to make.  I have been resisting creating an EFT product even though I get asked for one frequently.   After hearing myself yesterday explain to Till Schilling, the creator of Tappy Bear, why I&#8217;m best working with people and need to interact to shine (Resistance.  Blah, blah, blah.), I decided it was...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have a confession to make.  I have been resisting creating an EFT product even though I get asked for one frequently.   After hearing myself yesterday explain to Till Schilling, the creator of <strong><a href="http://tappybear.com/">Tappy Bear</a></strong>, why I&#8217;m best working with people and need to interact to shine (Resistance.  Blah, blah, blah.), I decided it was time to do some inner work.</p>
<p>There is an old folk saying that &#8220;curiousity killed the cat&#8221;.  It&#8217;s wrong. <strong> Curiousity doesn&#8217;t kill cats &#8211; it melts resistance. </strong> So, I asked myself, &#8220;What is up with the fighting?&#8221;  I tapped on the feelings.  It turns out that EFT founder Gary Craig was right.  The results I got  made my jaw drop.</p>
<div id="attachment_1129" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 180px"><a href="http://paulzelizer.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/10/irreverance.jpg"><img class="size-full wp-image-1129 " title="irreverance" src="http://paulzelizer.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/10/irreverance.jpg" alt="irreverance" width="170" height="170" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">EFT can be fun!</p></div>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">Turns out, I had a belief system that went like this:  &#8220;Products are B-O-R-I-N-G.  I don&#8217;t want to be boring.  So I can&#8217;t create a product.&#8221;<br />
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<p>As I released my &#8220;I don&#8217;t want to be boring&#8221; issue, new thoughts started flowing.  EFT is a very funny looking yet very effective thing we use to clear up some of the stickiest issues in our lives.  Lots of material for playing with the paradox there.   <em><strong>What if I wrote an EFT manual that was fun and effective?</strong> </em>I instantly noticed one of the best indicators of high vibrational states of being &#8211; a smile.</p>
<p>Then a new limiting belief popped up (goodbye smile).  <em>Would anyone actually want to buy my irreverent EFT manual? </em>I&#8217;ll spare you the details of the self-worth issues behind that question.  I&#8217;ll give you the 140 character, Twitter version.  I tapped some more.  Darn EFT stuff worked again.</p>
<p>I remembered this really cool thing called a blog where I could get feedback from cool people like you.  I am thinking of writing a manual called <span style="text-decoration: underline;">From Chaotic to Clarity: How to Use EFT and Humor Attraction to Clear Overwhelm</span>.  It would start out something like this:</p>
<blockquote><p>What you hold in your hands is the world&#8217;s first highly irreverent and effective EFT for Overwhelm manual.  And, the truth is, this manual almost never got written.</p></blockquote>
<p>From there, I would go on to share how I combine EFT and humor to help clients shift from feelings of overwhelm into states of being much clearer and more able to create the lives they want.   I would love to hear your thoughts in the form of a comment below.  Thanks in advance!<strong><br />
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		<title>EFT for Abundance: The 3 Best Ways to Find Your Blocks</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 09 Sep 2009 17:35:12 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Paul Zelizer</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I just got off the phone with Chip Engelmann, an EFT and Law of Attraction Coach and a friend of mine.  In addition to planning an exciting teleclass series we&#8217;ll be offering soon, we also spoke about the most frequent request we both hear in terms of EFT for Abundance &#8211; that is &#8220;How do...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I just got off the phone with Chip Engelmann, an EFT and Law of Attraction Coach and a friend of mine.  In addition to planning an exciting teleclass series we&#8217;ll be offering soon, we also spoke about the most frequent request we both hear in terms of EFT for Abundance &#8211; that is &#8220;How do I know what to tap on?&#8221;   It got me thinking that about the need for a blog post that gives you some insight into how experienced EFTers help their clients zero in on  specific abundance blocks.</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s the three best ways to help you know what to tap on when you&#8217;re using EFT for Abundance:</p>
<div id="attachment_712" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 185px"><a href="http://paulzelizer.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/09/great-wall.jpg"><img class="size-thumbnail wp-image-712" title="great wall" src="http://paulzelizer.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/09/great-wall-150x150.jpg" alt="Abundance Blocks can feel like this" width="175" height="175" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Abundance blocks can feel like The Great Wall</p></div>
<p><strong>1) Using the Tailender Technique. </strong>In EFT language, your tailenders are the &#8220;Yeah, but ..&#8221; part of an affirmation.  In other words, they are like an industrial strength rubber band tied around your waist that holds you back from making progress towards what you want.  In the Using the Tailender Technique, you deliberate explore your tailenders and find the issues that need clearing by doing so.</p>
<p>Start by finding a clear money affirmation that is a) believable and b) exciting to you.  For instance, &#8220;I easily and consistently make $100,000 per year.&#8221;  Once you have your affirmation, take 3 deep breaths.  Notice how your body feels and what thought are going through your mind.  This is your baseline.</p>
<p>Now, say your affirmation out loud, &#8220;I easily and consistently make $100,000 per year.&#8221;  Notice what happens in your body.  Say it out loud again.  This time notice what thoughts go through your mind. The body sensations and thoughts that happen after you say the affirmation usually have the energy of constriction.  These are your tailenders, the things that block you from creating more abundance.</p>
<p>For a moment, I ask you to relax your resistance towards your tailenders.  Be willing to explore them.  What does that body sensation remind you of?  Who does that negative thought bring to mind?  Through a curious exploration of your tailenders, you can find the core issues that are limiting your ability to be more successful in an authentic way.  Once you know the core issues, you on them.</p>
<p><strong>2) Clear by the Numbers. </strong>Chip Engelmann has developed a technique where he has clients explore their feelings about making different amounts of money.  In this approach, you start with an amount that feels comfortable to you.  For instance, suppose you currently earn $30,000 per year.  You would state, &#8220;I easily and consistently earn $30,000 per year.&#8221;  Then, you notice how that feels.  You keep increasing the amount until you notice some discomfort.  For instance, suppose $40,000 feels comfortable but you notice a feeling of &#8220;I don&#8217;t think so&#8221; when you say &#8220;I easily and consistently earn $50,000 per year.&#8221;   Explore that feeling of &#8220;I don&#8217;t think so&#8221;.  Notice where you feel it in your body and who it reminds you of.   Then tap on these issues.</p>
<p><strong>3) Clearing your Money Matrix. </strong>My favorite way to find your blocks is Money Matrix work.  Your Money Matrix is the energetic web that determines your current relationship with money. It is a combination of the important feelings, beliefs and relationships that you have with money.  When we are not experiencing the kind of success that we want, it’s often because our Money Matrix is being influenced by negative energies.</p>
<p>Below is the simple 4 step exercise I use with clients to help them understand their current energetic relationship with money and to know what to tap on when applying EFT for abundance.  Here are the four steps:</p>
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<li><strong> Take 3 clearing and centering breaths. </strong>The purpose of this is to help you relax your system and increase your ability to be aware. With each breath, find yourself becoming a bit more relaxed and more of attention available in the present moment.</li>
<li><strong> Imagine that you are in a room with money. </strong>It’s a simple room, comfortably furnished. Notice where money is in relationship to you. Is it to one side, in the front, outside the room, etc? Take a minute to notice what you what you see in your mind’s eye.</li>
<li><strong> Notice who or what else is in the room with you. </strong>After you have a sense of who and what these presences are, notice where these other presences (people or things) are in relationship to you and to money. For instance, one client felt a 3 inch plate glass wall that was between her and money.  Notice what you what you see in your mind’s eye.</li>
<li><strong>Notice the feelings in your body about your current Money Matrix.</strong> Your Money Matrix is encoded into the cells of your body.  Paying attention to the feeling in the snapshot you see is a powerful way to access your code. What do you notice in your body and on a feeling level as you view this picture in your mind’s eye?  Once you know what your current Money Matrix looks like, you can use EFT to clear what is in the way  and allow money to come much more easily into your life.</li>
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<p>It&#8217;s rare that a mechanical application of EFT leads to abundance results.  These three techniques about  allow people who are new to EFT for abundance or haven&#8217;t yet seen the success they want to get a much better picture of what to tap on.  Because abundance is a whole lot easier to move towards without the Great Wall of China in the way.</p>
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		<title>Better relationships, more money</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 27 Aug 2009 13:55:45 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Paul Zelizer</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[Money and the Law of Attraction]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[It happened again the other day. A woman called me &#8211; let&#8217;s call her Laura. Laura is a spiritual woman who has tried a number of ways to find success. She&#8217;s worked for purpose driven companies as well as started her own business. She&#8217;s also tried different abundance programs. She said, &#8220;I don&#8217;t understand it....]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It happened again the other day.  A woman called me &#8211; let&#8217;s call her Laura.  Laura is a spiritual woman who has tried a number of ways to find success.  She&#8217;s worked for purpose driven companies as well as started her own business.  She&#8217;s also tried different abundance programs.  She said, &#8220;I don&#8217;t understand it. I&#8217;m a smart person. I have lots of experience. I don&#8217;t understand why I&#8217;m still living month-to-month at this stage of my life.&#8221;</p>
<div id="attachment_650" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 160px"><a rel="attachment wp-att-650" href="http://paulzelizer.com/better-relationships-more-money/biz-hands/"><img class="size-thumbnail wp-image-650" title="biz hands" src="http://paulzelizer.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/08/biz-hands-150x118.jpg" alt="biz hands" width="150" height="118" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Better  relationships = more money</p></div>
<p>It&#8217;s hard to increase your success when you think of money as just a colored piece of paper. Smart success seekers understand that money always comes to us through relationships.  It&#8217;s a symbol we agree to use to express how much value we are providing to the people around us. One of the best ways to improve your income is to increase the number of quality relationships in your life.</p>
<p>Successful business people throughout the ages have known about the power of networking. In fact, groups like the Chamber of Commerce and Business Networking International teach that this is among the most powerful success tool there is.</p>
<p>The problem with most people&#8217;s approach is that it leaves out an understanding of mindset.  Most people don&#8217;t get much from their attempts to increase their network (online or off) because inside they are asking questions like, &#8220;how can this person help me make money?&#8221;</p>
<p>Imagine you are a prospective client talking with someone you are considering doing business with.  What do you feel in your body when the primary question in the person&#8217;s mind is &#8220;How can you help me make more money?&#8221;  My first response is &#8220;Yuck, get me out of here!&#8221;</p>
<p>In order to experience an authentic increase in success, you need 4 kinds of relationships.  They are:</p>
<ol>
<li><strong>Centered relationship with your Self</strong></li>
<li><strong>Flowing relationship with money</strong></li>
<li><strong>Purpose-driven relationship with clients/customers</strong></li>
<li><strong>Co-creative relationships with colleagues</strong></li>
</ol>
<p>Energy psychology tools, like EFT and Money Matrix, allow you to easily develop these four  neccessary relationships for success.  To help you learn how to do this, I&#8217;m doing a <strong>FREE  teleclass on Sunday, August 30th at 2pm Eastern Standard Time.  It&#8217;s called The Heart  of Success: Money Matrix and the 4 Kinds of Relationships You Need to Succeed.</strong></p>
<p>In today&#8217;s economy, if you are connected then you are valuable.  With email, cell phones,  social networking sites and other forms of technology, it&#8217;s easier to connect than ever.  It&#8217;s your thoughts, feelings and behaviors &#8211; your Money Matrix &#8211; that determines whether or not these connections are a source of support and success.  I&#8217;m offering this FREE class because I want you to know how to increase your success through the power of  relationships.</p>
<p><strong><a href="http://paulzelizer.com/eft/money-matrix/heart-of-success/">Click here for information about the call. </a></strong></p>
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